A workaround we've round it to throttle it by what the first name begins with...For example,
If the first name starts with, A,B,C,D,E,F send email called XXX - default - do nothing; wait one day; if they first name starts with G,H,I,J,K,L send email XXX - default - do nothing; wait one day.... don't forget to put one in there for if the first name is blank.
This isn't an exact split, but since Marketo doesn't have a way to throttle emails (hopefully soon b/c that's like a basic need for any email provider), it seems to do decent job of splitting them up.