I would move this discussion to Job Opportunities, that will get you more traffic.
Also you cannot message other users if they are not also following you, but you can vote for the idea here: Community - ability to message users without having to follow/be followed
To expand on Devral, this "About Community" place is for feedback on the Community website itself (i.e. feedback to the webmaster, essentially). So that's why you won't hear from the user community here.
i'd look for marketo consultants on launchpoint. Most of them have some backend expertise to do this work.