I think I figured it out. the module we're using in Framer puts it in an iframe and breaks the connection between the munchkin code on the page they land on. I should have seen tha...
Thank you Stanford, Sorry I didn't mean to ghost you, we got it to work but then today It didn't. We implemented this solution and it 100% works. I also feel the form loads faster....
Just to add another note. We turned some stuff off in SF and it didn't change anything.
To test we uploaded 23 records through Marketo for an event attendance and it created 23 me...